Frustration 2014

I fail to understand how or why you have to negotiate the manner in which you go about your belongings. What’s the point of having all this “collateral” when you’re not utilizing/ enjoying it or your belongings.. If you’re not ok in the present moment how can you be good or prepare to be good later on. Why must people judge you through hardship like you intentionally brought yourself to go through it. More importantly why do people feel like they need to oppose your situation and your decisions when you’re just trying to get yourself over hurdles so you can get over whatever stump has stopped you from having peace of mind. Do folks realize that by saying once this is done you’ll literally have nothing is an ineffective psychology tact. Obviously, I realize this and apparently I’m the only one who believes I can replace everything again.

Either way come up with a solution or suggest alternative options but don’t bully me into what you feel is better for me. At the very least don’t make it so obvious about your clear disbelief in me and what I am capable of.

Yuuuup get it! #Model

Yuuuup get it! #Model

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straightpathjewlz:

@abdithetraveler @whosane718 #SPJ #CAPETOWN #SA

Looking GOOOD!

straightpathjewlz:

@abdithetraveler @whosane718 #SPJ #CAPETOWN #SA

Looking GOOOD!

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doordontthereisnotry:

I want this to be my ring tone!

Be still my heart! ☺😭 (Wow! It’s been a minute.)

vanityfair:

Scandal’s First Lady | Introducing our August cover star, Kerry Washington! 

Damn Kerry!

vanityfair:

Scandal’s First Lady | Introducing our August cover star, Kerry Washington! 

Damn Kerry!

#TrueStory

#TrueStory

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That’s INTENSE!
chockfullofjunk:

Wow!
sashastyles:

Amanda and Her Cousin Amy, 1990 by Mary Ellen Mark
Story behind it:
“In 1990, Peter Howe at Life magazine sent me to North Carolina to photograph a special school for children with problems. 
The school was a very strange place because all of the twenty or so children were in the same classroom and their problems ranged from mild behavior instability to severe schizophrenia.
Nine-year-old Amanda was the most interesting child in the class. Amanda was very intelligent and very naughty. One day I followed her home on the school bus. When the bus stopped at her house, she dashed ahead of me and ran into a nearby wooded area. I continued to follow her into the woods and eventually found her sitting in an old stuffed chair having a cigarette. She thought that I would reprimand her since I was an adult. But I said nothing.
The following Sunday, I spent the day at home with Amanda and her mother. Amanda totally controlled her mother. Amanda smoked openly in front of her.
Her 8-year-old cousin Amy was coming over, and she was very excited. All day long, Amanda and her cousin played like children. Every forty-five minutes or so, Amanda would take a break to have a cigarette.
Just before I left, I looked for Amanda to say good-bye. I found her and Amy in the backyard. They were in a children’s inflatable pool. Amanda was taking her regular cigarette break.”

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That’s INTENSE!

chockfullofjunk:

Wow!

sashastyles:

Amanda and Her Cousin Amy, 1990 by Mary Ellen Mark

Story behind it:

“In 1990, Peter Howe at Life magazine sent me to North Carolina to photograph a special school for children with problems. 

The school was a very strange place because all of the twenty or so children were in the same classroom and their problems ranged from mild behavior instability to severe schizophrenia.

Nine-year-old Amanda was the most interesting child in the class. Amanda was very intelligent and very naughty. One day I followed her home on the school bus. When the bus stopped at her house, she dashed ahead of me and ran into a nearby wooded area. I continued to follow her into the woods and eventually found her sitting in an old stuffed chair having a cigarette. She thought that I would reprimand her since I was an adult. But I said nothing.

The following Sunday, I spent the day at home with Amanda and her mother. Amanda totally controlled her mother. Amanda smoked openly in front of her.

Her 8-year-old cousin Amy was coming over, and she was very excited. All day long, Amanda and her cousin played like children. Every forty-five minutes or so, Amanda would take a break to have a cigarette.

Just before I left, I looked for Amanda to say good-bye. I found her and Amy in the backyard. They were in a children’s inflatable pool. Amanda was taking her regular cigarette break.”

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Damn. 9/25 seems pretty damn common!

Damn. 9/25 seems pretty damn common!

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@AMuseWrites Bitter. Love is love period. When you find your match others simply don’t interest you. Not to say that you wont find others attractive bc we’re human but you wont succumb to the urge of meaningless sexual encounters or allow yourself to be in situations where things may happen in the heat of the moment.

Passion, lust and desire are a necessity but there has to be more and once there’s someone who means something to you in the picture where your loss may be greater than an adventure you’re less likely  to cheat.

Ultimately- we cheat when we’re no longer happy or interested.. When we feel that there’s probably someone better out there for us and that we’re settling.

Some people are just assholes and others have an addition.

so YES monogamy is a realistic expectation in a relationship..

until it isn’t.

{http://theloveproject.tv/video?id=462}