I fail to understand how or why you have to negotiate the manner in which you go about your belongings. What’s the point of having all this “collateral” when you’re not utilizing/ enjoying it or your belongings.. If you’re not ok in the present moment how can you be good or prepare to be good later on. Why must people judge you through hardship like you intentionally brought yourself to go through it. More importantly why do people feel like they need to oppose your situation and your decisions when you’re just trying to get yourself over hurdles so you can get over whatever stump has stopped you from having peace of mind. Do folks realize that by saying once this is done you’ll literally have nothing is an ineffective psychology tact. Obviously, I realize this and apparently I’m the only one who believes I can replace everything again.
Either way come up with a solution or suggest alternative options but don’t bully me into what you feel is better for me. At the very least don’t make it so obvious about your clear disbelief in me and what I am capable of.